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Goodbye Boyfriends, Hello...Side boos?

You know a creepy trend that I'm seeing on social media? A lot more people are talking about their side girls/boys. If you're not familiar with the term, it refers to someone you're having relations with outside of your relationship. So the other woman/man now has a title.

Don't get me wrong I'm not the poster child for monogamy, I guess you could say I've had my fair share of side dudes. It's not something I'm proud of, nor is it something that I condone. My only thing is when I was cheating, they were long distance relationships with people I met online and never met in person. When I had someone here I had someone here, or before I actually did the deed I left the person. So technically I didn't cheat. Which should be the goal.Not to cheat.

I was always taught when you date someone, that's the prelude for marriage. If that's not the goal, take your hat out the ring. There's no point in dating someone and "getting serious" if you don't have any plans on really committing to that person. If you're not serious don't waste the other person's time.

If you agreed to only date one person, then be true to your word. Don't say "I have a boyfriend" with another man's member in your mouth. That makes you look bad, not them. 

For example, I'm not looking for anything serious. At all. If it happens great, if it doesn't happen, then it's no skin off my teeth. I'd go the route of being single, dating multiple guys, and the occasional one night stand. If that's not for you and you want someone to boo up with, then get a boo. But don't act single because his dick game is weak. You can't have it all. For me I don't always like someone around me, I like my space, my time. I'm a call- you- when- I- need you type person, if I don't have plans for you then I'm not going to hit you up. You could say I'm made for this lifestyle, right now. 

However, if you want someone at home waiting for you, a person to start petty arguments with and have great makeup sex with after, and show off for mama, Then you're a relationship type of girl. I salute you. But if you're going to go that route. Stay faithful. In the words of Beyonce "Dust to Side Bitches." 

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